WoW 6 yrs have already flown by since the Hubs and I had our 1st date. What I didn't know back then is that this was the guy I was meant to be with. That took me only a couple of month's and a lot of praying about it. 6 yrs has been great I gained an amazing stepdaughter (Miss R) and a cherub (K). Our 6 yrs have been a whirl wind but together we have made an amazing team. We pick each other up when ones down and we build from each other. Where I am at fault I have a great guy to make up for it and where he faults I am right there.
I am 1 lucky gal to have such an amazing guy to call MINE
Our 6 years time line without the dates as I don't remember them all and if i did it would be just a little creepy. I can tell you month but don't ask the date :o) Most of our 2
nd year was working with K and his health..which you will read below as it was all part of our 6 yrs..
Dad meets I
1st date
Dad, SP and Grandma meet I
1st meeting of miss R (Captured my heart from this moment ON)
Surprise is KNOWN by only us
1st weekend trip together (Seaside OR)
2
nd trip together to FL
1st car accident together (also my 1st time in an aid truck for myself)
Engagement
3rd trip together (Surf trip in OR..P gets caught in Riptide stayed on Surfboard and I pulls it to shore)
Visitors from FL and trip to the MT
A miracle was born
I held my 5lbs baby in my arms for the 1st time.
K stopped breathing for the 1st time in a town we didn't know. Acid Reflux is what we are told and then released.
2
nd time 2 weeks later K stopped breathing again. Took medics 17
min's to get to us our house. By then I and P had him back to normal. They gave us the choice to take him in or not. WE took him in.
K coded in P's arms while they try to draw blood from him..They just put the band on his arm and it set him off...Limp and gray. Transport was on their way.
We stayed for 4 hours waiting for them to put together the transport team at St.
Petes.
I laid my son in an isolate for transport and had to walk away as I couldn't ride with them...I BROKE DOWN in
I's arms
K was admitted to the
PICU. They ran all the test in the books. They thought it was his heart but that checked out 100%. Brain 100% organ functions 100%..
Things that was hindering I is nearly finished.
K is released 7 days later with apnea monitor.
Baby shower ..K was early by 5.5
wks so he was at his baby shower
Finishing K's room
K stopped breathing..This time it was a 100% coding..911 "I have a 1M baby who is not breathing I am starting CPR" Do you need me to guide you? "No" Medics are dispatched..I am ready to help.. (3 times of CPR and pushing the cat away with my foot I get him breathing) "He's making whimpering noises" put the phone to him so I can hear him "OK" "What do I do now" just keep talking to him...to
stpetes just for them to tell us he is bring transferred to Mary bridge...long story he was in
PICU then floor then in the OR back to
PICU to the floor to going home..the issue.. bad reflux hurt him made him cry which caused his under developed trachea to close which then he would stop breathing (youngest breath holder documented) until he would pass out then his breathing would start again...Home again with even more machines and wires for him..Adding O2 to his everyday life. Coming home Dec 23rd
Rushed Hubs to the hospital because he nearly cut off his finger trimming our Christmas tree..Yes same day we got home from the
hossy with K.
Christmas
K stopped breathing again but can't be from reflux as he had the
Nissen done as his reflux was
ALTES (A life threatening event/s) while at his Doctors office for his 6M well baby. Took off his clothes to go measure and weigh him and he was crying in his I'm going to stop breathing cry (Yes I learned that cry early on) I told his doc he's going into a fit now. She just watched and let us try to calm him before he went into not breathing then it went into craziness. Screaming started for 2
nd doc to call 911 and me to get miss R out of the room. Thank goodness another mom with child was out there that offered to watch R so I could be back there. K was taken and I took off for a different
hossy and R and I arrived. This time I wasn't allowed back for a few
min's then the RN called up to see if the mom was there yet. They then took R behind the counter to do some crafts and coloring and let me go back. they put an IV into his bone he wasn't doing well. then his mom started talking and he settled down and they had to shave a chunk of his hair for a head IV. They saved it for me and I still have it today. He was transferred to Mary bridge again. 5 days and he was sent home doing well...still not sure what it was they went back in and it wasn't reflux..they think just a bad breath holding and soft tranche issue. They wanted to tranche him the last time but I had said NO unless it was life or death and I made them contact a doctor that I had worked with in my intern and sure enough he didn't need a tranche. Went home with the prescription of don't let the baby cry hard..any whimpers needed to be addressed for the next 6 Months.
Went home and just enjoyed life
I's thing is DONE..dragged out for over a year but all is DONE finally
K settled down now it was family building time.
We're moving..we told our family that we'd be moving to FL. We prayed hard on it and followed our hearts to FL.
K's feeding tube (note used for feeding just burping until a yr old) broke and as I fed him it came out the hole. YUCK. We took him to Mary bridge and after 4 hours and me talking to our home doctor who got to know me very well since K was born. We had it removed when K was 8.5M and 3 weeks before our move was happening.
Moving Day..We left our house in the early AM to board our flight to FL as a family..We were a sight to see..
LOL Me carrying K and bags and I with 2 cats. But it was easy because I and I make a great team. took no extra time.
Arrived in TX and we feed the cats and let K crawl around as we had 2.5 hrs until our flight to FL
We are HOME..FL that is
We took a chance and had a vacation until job was found and then house hunting started.
I found a job...He found it the day after arriving in FL (Still there 4.5 yrs now)
Found a house..but not ready to move in so lived in motel until it was ready.
Moved in and have been here since.
Got married
2
nd car finally
Potty trained
pre-k 2, 3, 4 and Kindergarten
now life is still rolling on but much less stressful with K all healed up and perfect besides for his 4 yr old attitude he developed about a week after turning 4.
We all are doing great and just enjoying life and waiting out the storm of the recession.